In Celebration of

Bing Qing Chen

December 11, 1934 -  April 18, 2020


It is with great sadness that we announce the peaceful passing of Bingqing Chen. with family by her side, on Saturday, April 18, 2020, at the age of 86.

Bingqing was a devoted wife of 64 years to Yulin Ye; Loving mother to Hong, Bin, and Ying; Survived by her sister Yuqing Chen, and brother Weiguang Chen, and cousin Xuehua Xia; Cherished grandmother of Yuan Yuan and Koh; Dear great grandma of Rey; Fondly remembered by sons-in-law Hao, Takao, and Winghui; Greatly Missed by many nieces and nephews: Yi Shen, Nianchun Ye, Xin Ye, Meng Ye, Qing Ye, Hong Wang, Qing Zhang, and by extended family.

She graduated from university in Shanghai and moved to Xian with her husband in response to the government's call in late 1950s. She lived there for 40 years until retired from a full career. In both her personal and professional life, she always gave of her best, got things done, and was very thoughtful of others. She demonstrated fearless strength of character in difficult times with wit and determination. She served as a strong female role model for her daughters and grand daughter, being independent, intellectual and calm. Her dedication to family was always evident and very touching. Entering her late 80s, she continued to carry the role to look after aging husband who had several small strokes, until her own health took a turn for the worse. She had a big stroke in Sept 2019 and later diagnosed with late stage lymphoma in December. She was an avid reader. Always with stacks of books collecting at her bed side, and often read past midnight. Her favorite novel is Dream of the Red Chamber.

She will be dearly missed by MingChui Zheng, Lizhu Shen, Huiqun Zhang and all who knew her.

The family extends heartfelt thanks to the many healthcare professionals at Bruyère - Saint-Vincent Hospital, for their dedicated and compassionate care.

Due to the developments with COVID 19 pandemic and travel restrictions, the visitation is cancelled, and memorial with family will be held at a future date.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to the Bruyère Foundation in support of their amazing staff and care they provide, in memoriam of Bingqing Chen.


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Ying (Daughter)

Entered April 20, 2020 from Ottawa

Time to say goodbye

妈妈去年9月份脑溢血中风,病情稳定后转到慢性病院。康复的路上刚有起色,可是新的挑战又来了,12月诊断出淋巴癌晚期, 最后不治。

妈妈奉献了一生。不论在工作还是生活上, 她总是不遗余力, 尽最大努力做事。小时候记得晚上每次工作上有人来找,她都会马上跟着去单位帮着解决问题。她总是在陪伴和守护着家人, 爸爸年迈生病,妈妈一直在亲自照顾爸爸。她是一个举重若轻的人, 遇事都能坦然面对,总是替他人着想。 住院期间,每次都叫我早点回去, 忙我的事情。

这段日子,与其说是我在陪她, 更像是她在陪我走过这段艰难的旅程,一起做出她生命里最后的选择。即使在她病重的时候,跟她在一起,我总是觉得很安心,有她的陪伴, 今年的冬天也不那么的冷,Corvid-19也没那么可怕。

虽然从9月份起就开始有了思想准备,可是当说再见的这一天真正到来的时候,还是太多的不舍和难过。妈妈, 我会经常想起我们在一起的点点滴滴,愿您一路走好, 照顾好自己!

非常感谢家人和朋友一直以来支持和帮助, 谢谢大家的慰问!

Wing Hui Jang (Son-in-law)

Entered April 20, 2020 from Ottawa

都说亲人会有感应,昨晚, 您出現在我的梦里。那是一个家庭的聚会,我们在一起举杯畅饮,热聊在中国和加拿大的生活,接着我们又一起去爬山,登上山顶,眺望无边的天际…

您走了,这个世界对于我们好象失去了什么,显得格外的空寂。回想起和您生活在一起的奌奌滳滳,您那些可贵的品质,都深深地印在我的心里。您是一位坚强, 智慧和处处为亲人着想的人。您有着一个中国母亲特有的善良,一个五十年代中国大学生特有的社会责任感,您为整个家庭和社会都留下了许许多多的东西。我以您为傲。

您走了,但好象还没有走,只是睡着了,还带着微笑。您永远活在我们的心里。

您的又一个孩子:永辉。

Zhang Hao (Son-in-law)

Entered April 20, 2020 from Shanghai

岳母陈冰清今天凌晨离开我们了。
2018年10月我去渥太华时,是担心爸爸身体不好,
心想无论如何要赶上见一面,
想不到却是和妈妈的最后一面了。

妈妈是我为数不多敬重的长辈。
像她那个时代的知识女性,矜持却不乏爱心。
我听外婆说过,她在大学时代就肩负养家糊口的重担;
在她整个职业生涯里的收入,几乎都汇给了外婆,
以接济父亲早逝的家庭,那种坚持不是现代人可以想象的。
我自己也亲身体验妈妈没有势利眼,
在我还是一介穷书生的时候,没有因此拒绝我;
我至今温馨的回忆起,我还是一个大学生时,
和正在北京出差的妈妈一起去爬了长城;
我清晰地记得,我们整个婚礼,是她一手操办的,
至今保留着她亲手整理的,收到的礼物和必须回馈的清单;
而对我人生最大的奖励,是有次她写信告诉我:最终他们没有看错人;
甚至到他们最后一次住在上海时,
我们还享受饭来张口、回家有父母等待的感觉。

现在这一切都和我们无缘了。
我深切怀念她。

都说善有善报,但是我没有看到上帝的彰显,
我不明白为什么她要承受生命最后阶段如此的痛苦?
也许人生的归途本来就是腥风血雨?

我只能祈祷:
愿妈妈在天国,依然能够安静的阅读她喜欢的书;
愿妈妈从天国俯视我们的时候,依然感到宽慰。

妈妈,一路走好,
只要我们活着,您就一直活着。
我们永远怀念您!

Bing Yan (Her daughter's friend)

Entered April 20, 2020 from Ottawa, ON, Canada

陈阿姨一路走好,家人节哀顺变。

郑名垂和申丽珠 (Friend)

Entered April 20, 2020 from Ottawa

叶樱;
惊闻伯母去世、我们很难过和悲痛!她勤劳慈祥的羙好形象捋永远留在我们的心中!特在此表示悼念和对妳的慰问。望多多莭哀!

名垂 丽珠

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